Things to do when you feel lonely
Try to figure out what's missing
The state of being alone simply means noone else is with you. Loneliness, especially when it's a persistent state, is a warning sign that something essential isabsent from your life.
The first step to curing the problem is to figure out what's missing. Do you isolate yourself, by accident ordesign? Do you work in a career that doesn't allow formuch one-on-one human interaction? Do you have any friends, family, or lovedones you can talk to?
If the answer to any of these is negative, it's time to take positive steps tocorrect that.
Join a dating site. Get the contact information for your cousinyou haven't talked to since adolescence.
Ask thatserver at the local diner if she's free for dinner onenight. Even if the answer is no, you're taking positivesteps to alleviate your loneliness.
figure out 计算出； 弄明白； 解决； 想出
They're trying to figure out the politics of this whole situation.
I can't figure out what he was hinting at.
Please figure out the total cost.